Beware when opposites attract!

Are you attracted to that person because you feel like they complete you? Maybe, but is it healthy?

Figure out your insecurities and be sure your attraction is not riding on those. Things like: fear to anger another, afraid of being left out so you become clingy,parts about you that you don’t like and generally re-experiencing a painful past.

You cannot afford to appear clingy, with time people will run from you. Don’t get me wrong of course it is important to be with people who celebrate you for who you are but I also think that it is important to pursue growth in all areas. Everyone is attracted to an independent person.

What is it that you are lazy to work upon and assume that by relating with someone already there you are covered? Trust me, it never ends well. It is important for you to establish yourself. I mean, figure out who you are, what you like, what you can’t stand. Have a personality that identifies you, it’s a refreshing feeling.

Wouldn’t it be nice to not always be seeking plot? When you reach that point where you can genuinely turn down plot because you have a life?

Yes, it is very much important that you socialize with others because remember we are social beings and we work best in twos than by ourselves. So discover your grip in this word, but be sure not to lose yourself while doing it. You only have one life to live, make it a dream.

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